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We combined families in marriage, just like the Brady Bunch. His children have never had chores and my children have always had responsibilities around the house. So the challenge when we married was how to get all the kids to cooperate in sharing household chores. There isn't a single tried&true formula for success in this - but there are a few things to consider: timing, training, and motivation. First of all, you'll need to designate and set aside time for chores. That is, you need to put some time on the family schedule for this in order to make it a priority and avoid the inevitable list of "schedule conflict" excuses that could otherwise postpone everything indefinitely. But you should also focus on one type of chore at a time, like "mopping floors" or "cleaning windows". (Do NOT schedule a cleaning day with a long list of things to accomplish, because that spells disaster.) Second, you'll need to strategize how to train the inexperienced members of your "workforce" family to perform necessary tasks before you can expect them to do anything at all. It may help to treat your kitchen, bathroom, garage, or yard as a classroom and present demonstrations to the group - involving the experienced members of your "workforce" family as volunteers and demonstrators, too! If they can do so with a smile, it's great to have your kids teaching each other, especially as an opportunity to highlight each other's strengths! After each demo, break the group down into teams with independent assignments to practice what they've learned throughout your home or yard. Since you're focusing on one chore at a time, this should work out nicely. Finally, provide some appropriate incentives to motivate your "workforce" family, like awards and praise. Recognize your family's accomplishments on an individual level and as a group, with rewards that mean something to each member (something other than money). Remember, being part of the family is not a job, so taking care of the house shouldn't be treated like one either. It's impossible to demand cooperation; but if you set the right conditions, teamwork should build naturally, bit by bit, step by step!

By Kasey Lyn from Minnesota

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Rose

I read a good tip recently.  What to do with those leftover veggies from dinner?  They're not enough foranother meal, but you hate to throw them out.  Freeze them.  Then, when you have enough, makea vegetable soup.  You should have a variety of leftover veggies from all your meals that will make a delicous soup!

posted on 4/9/2012 11:16:57 AM

 
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Susan K.

A Very Brady Bunch & Mine Yours & Ours Family! :) With Unconditional Love ALL The Way Around The Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner Table! <3 Love!; Love!; Love!; Your Idea! But, We are Now onto Wedding Plans & Have A US Marine & Grown Up's!' Moving Out!; In College, Done Deals! <3Best 2 You!;& Your Loved One's!; & And To ALL! HAPPY NEW YEAR! Susan & Stephen & Kid's Now Adults They ALL are! lol.....<3

posted on 1/17/2012 7:17:38 PM

 
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Patricia

thanks

posted on 12/17/2011 10:02:48 PM

 
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Lucy

I've never had to mix a family with children like that - you sound extraordinarily wise - good luck to you and yours.

posted on 12/14/2011 1:18:15 AM

 
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Kristina

Oh my gosh!  We have a Brady Bunch of his, mine and ours!  I couldn't agree more!  However, in our family, we had to set aside one day for chores to be done because we just had TOO many conflicting schedules!  With that said, there could never be an excuse! 

posted on 12/10/2011 8:33:53 PM

 
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Susan

Remember it takes a villiage to raise a child.  Parents, step-parents and adults should be respected.  We all have the potential to be part of a bigger "Brady Bunch"  dont miss the opportunities .

posted on 12/9/2011 5:37:42 AM

 
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Jean

WE are also a brady bunch or yours mine and ours family and I have found that the natural parents should be the child's primary diciplinarian at home to keep from less arguements. Also it is hard for the children that we dont live with or get to see much. Especially around the hollidays. :)

posted on 12/7/2011 8:16:39 AM

 
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Diane

I also have this issue ...and I love your idea, it is simple to the point, and I'm definately gonna give it a try.. Thank You ....your advice is a god send to me.  :)                                                                      Diane Rudd

posted on 12/7/2011 7:42:39 AM

 
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Tammy

I always loved the Brady Bunch!  I have a small family but we all pitch in and are always looking for products to help make our home clean, healthy and smelling warm and inviting.

posted on 12/7/2011 7:11:12 AM

 

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