This is the last story we’ll share with you that our readers submitted. Diane takes us through the lessons she learned from her grandmother about how to live simply and fully. . .
I have lots of great stories about my mom, but my grandmother Esther, who lived through the Great Depression, is the one I want to share with you! She was like a mom to me and very special. And while she passed away in 2003, I think about her every day. She was such an inspiration to me! In the past few weeks, I’ve been thinking about the lessons of frugality that she taught me.
Lesson 1: Make do with as little as possible
While it may not seem cool in this society to go without, my grandmother made do. She lived in the country with my grandfather and made almost all her meals from scratch, using food from their garden. My grandfather hunted and brought home wild turkey and deer. She reused scraps of paper to write lists and notes, and conserved water and electricity. She didn’t shop for fun or accumulate knick-knacks and frivolous items. She wore her clothes until they wore out!
Lesson 2: Learn to cook, sew, and decorate
My grandmother was an expert seamstress, which was how she paid for her college tuition in the 1940s. She made many clothes for her children and grandchildren, knitted blankets, pieced together patchwork quilts, decorated her home and cooked meals everyday for years.
Lesson 3: Pick up frugal hobbies and entertainment
Some hobbies, like renting movies or shopping, can really add up. Others, like stamp collecting, don't cost nearly as much. My grandmother loved reading books and magazines she got from the library, taking walks outside, visiting family and friends, and listening to music. She rarely watched TV.
Lesson 4: Appreciate what you have
It can be hard to want what you have without wanting more, but my grandmother never seemed to want more than she had. She was content with her home, her belongings, and her family. She had mastered the art of contentment.
Lesson 5: Never get in debt and save up for a rainy day
My grandmother's generation didn't believe in debt, and therefore, she never got in debt or even had her own credit card. For whatever she needed, she paid cash. She saved her change and dollar bills and only bought things when she had the money. She saved up for what was important to her.
Lesson 6: Creatively solve problems
Whenever a problem came up, she always had the solution. She was very practical about how to solve problems, without resorting to spending money. For example, when I was moving into my first apartment, she helped me come up with a list of stuff I'd need and meals I could make that wouldn't cost a lot.
Lesson 7: Focus on the big picture
One snowy night, my grandmother died peacefully in her sleep. The most important lesson she taught me was to focus on living a good life, loving your family and not focus on money or things.
With these lessons, she lived a wonderful life. I hope her lessons inspire you, too!
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