9/29/2009

Results Are In: Turn Dinner Table to Game Table?

Results Are In:  Turn Dinner Table to Game Table?

You’ve probably heard the studies that talk about the importance of families sitting down to dinner together each night. But have you ever thought about how you can make dinnertime fun so everyone wants to sit down together? While charades and board games are great after a meal, you can keep kids engaged—and at the table longer—with verbal games you play during the meal. Here are a few of our favorites.

The Kids’ Game
A variation on the old standard “20 Questions,” you start by saying “I’m thinking of a kid who lives in our neighborhood” or “I’m thinking of a kid who goes to your elementary school.” Then it’s up to your children to ask questions that reveal clues and result in a “yes” or “no” answer (“Does she go to our bus stop?” or “Is he in my grade?”). Encourage your children to ask at least 10 questions before they start guessing their answer. Both grown-ups and children can take turns “thinking of kids.”

The “I’m Going on a Picnic” Game

The notion behind this game is to uncover the “theme” that the person who started the round has chosen. Each player says what they’re “bringing on a picnic”—usually two items. Then, they’re told either “Yes, you can come on our picnic” (if they chose two items that fit the theme) or “No, you can’t come” (if their items don’t fit the theme). Let’s say the theme is state abbreviations. If you say “I’m going on a picnic and I’m bringing ducks and eggs,” you can “come” because you used the “D” and the “E” in the abbreviation for Delaware. If you guess wrong, you can try again on your next turn. The round ends when everyone is able to “go” on the picnic. The fun part about this game is listening for the really strange—and unpicnic-like—things people say they’re “bringing on a picnic,” such as “nickels and cleats” for NC (North Carolina), if we’re sticking with the state abbreviation theme.

The First and Last Game
This game can help little ones with their spelling. You start by picking a topic, such as animals. The first person says her word (zebra, for example), and then the next person has to come up with an animal that has “a” as the first letter, since it was the last letter in zebra. Try other fun topics like breakfast cereals, cartoon characters, and sports teams. If you want to up the competition, time people so that they have to say their “answer” in 30 seconds or less.

Trust us—with these games at your disposal, dinnertime will never be boring again.

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Rora

Great ideas and more family fun!  Thanks!

posted on 9/29/2009

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Samantha

Our family likes to talk about the "best" and "worst" part of the day.  The only rule is we can not get emotional with each other.  This way, us parents are keeping up with what is going on with the kids (and eachother) and the kids get to learn how to deal better with things that make them upset.  And since we are talking both bad and good, it doesn't usually end on a sour note.  Not to mention that it keeps the communication open with everyone. 

posted on 9/29/2009

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Wendy

Maybe I'm old fashion when it comes to meal time with family...but we always have the television off during meals, the kids do not have a choice of eating somewhere else other than the dinner table during our main meal of the day.  We share our days happenings, opinions, ask questions, etc.  No need to play games at the table!  What happened to old fashion manners and communication?  Maybe the games would be good when it's just Mom or Dad home with the kids at lunch time...educational games for sure. All of my children are grown with children of their own and to this day, they eat their main meal of the day at the kitchen/dining room table with no TV on and do the same things they did when they were growing up.  Guess you could call this "tradition", but it works and with alot of appreciation for other's opinions, feelings, and just plain respect for one another.

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Jennifer

I'M with you!  Talk talk talk....don't loss sight of what's really important:  God and family!

posted on 9/29/2009

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Jennifer

We never eat anywhere except our kitchen table, I love it we all sit together and talk and eat my two favorite things to do lol we dont have any TV in or around our table not even in our living room our TV is two rooms away in our den so we are not even tempted

posted on 9/29/2009

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Margaret

I agree with sitting down for dinner. We always have and our parents, grandparents have too. I think in today's society we need to realize that the parents are in charge. Many parents have been so busy with making things better and more convenient for their family and children they forget how to lead (train) their children to accept authority and responsibility and that leads to respect. It's not easy to make the rules and make them work, but it is definitely worth the effort.

posted on 9/30/2009

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Esther

We usually have dinner first and conversation while the meal is being consumed then afterwards the games come out on certain nights. We have designated nights as family game night and on that night either me or one of my two children will have dinner at their homes with games to be played afterwards. The kids can play along with us or as they usually do they can play their own board game also. During the meal, however, the family talks over the day or past few days events so no game time then.

posted on 10/5/2009

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Lorri

We only eat at the table, and we all eat at the same time - no tv and no phones - we talk, we discuss what's happening later on in the week and who has what going on when - no games at dinner time - but occasionally we do play games afterwards - saturday evening is game time in our home, everyone invites people over, from kids to teens and our friends from work, we set card tables up and set out game boards, play old movies on the tv, everyone brings a snack food and we chow and talk and play games... a few squables have broken out but really it's all fun. The few times we have not had it due to illness and once a death, people complained, lol, we live in a small town, not much to do and if you look at the end of our road there is a wooden sign with an arrow pointing that say Nichols House : )

posted on 10/5/2009

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Janice

I absolutely love the samples you send, It gives me a chance to see if I really like the product before i spend money buying it!  Thank you so much!!  Janice

posted on 10/5/2009

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Cynthia

My children are older (23 and 16) however, it is still very important to continue family values such as talking, sharing holidays and mealtimes together.

posted on 10/6/2009

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