9/15/2009

Be Late for These 6 Things

Be Late for These 6 Things

Sooner or later some drug company is going to come out with a medication for procrastination. (Did you know it’s thought to originate in the same part of the brain as attention deficit disorder?) The market would be huge—experts say 95% of people procrastinate from time to time and nearly 20% make it a habit. But we’re not so sure we’d take that pill. Although being late can complicate, in some instances it’s a smart thing to do. Consider these six instances where it might just pay to be tardy.

Exercising:
Many women think it’s best to work out in the morning, and they drag themselves out of bed at dawn to do it. While this is a good strategy psychologically, it’s not wise physically. The best exercise time for your body is actually 5 to 7 PM. That’s when its core temperature is naturally high, muscles are warm, and you’re more likely to have a strong, injury-free workout. Plus, it’s a great way to blow off the day’s stress.

“Rescuing” a child:
If your child has scrambled to the top of the play set and is looking a bit worried, pause before running to “save” them. As long as there’s no immediate danger, studies show it’s better to let them figure out how to free themselves. It builds self-confidence.

Boarding a plane:
Why is everyone so anxious to be the first one to sit down in the tiny space where they’ll be sitting for the next 3 hours? Unless you are traveling with a child, have a large carry-on, or got an upgrade to business, wait until nearly all rows have been seated. Then just walk on, sit down, and take off.

Answering the phone:
Instinct makes us jump up to get it. Instead, try training yourself to use the ring as a cue to take two deep breaths. When you do this throughout the day, it can help you relax. Imagine that!

Buying the latest technology:
Whether it’s the newest cell phone or digital camera, resist the urge (or your husband’s urge) to own the latest. Let the bugs get worked out first. The second version of everything is better (and often cheaper).

Getting out of bed: The best type of rest happens in the last stage of sleep, usually between the seventh and eighth hours. This is the longest stage of REM. If you’re getting up early, you’re missing out. So sleeping longer isn’t necessarily lazy—it could actually make you more alert and productive the rest of the day (imagine that!). Now how do we convince the kids to let us sleep in just a bit longer?!

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jhmokie

Laughing  Perfect!  I always knew that being late was a good thing, just needed someone else to confirm it!

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Akita

Well, this still doesn't make me feel any better about my chronic lateness!Embarassed

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Elizabeth

I agree with waiting to buy the latest electronic device.  They are ALWAYS cheeper if you wait and sometimes added extras or better software thrown in free.  It also makes the version that was just upgraded really cheap.  I just bought a new camera in April for way less than the new model because I was willing not have the latest/greatest.And I am so happy now that I have a medical reason to push that snooze now.  My hubby just pops out of bed and can't understand why I don't. 

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Grace

Totally agree with the "don't jump when the phone rings" thing!  I've started doing that and I feel much calmer now.   Besides, if it's REALLY URGENT they will call back!  I also have caller id, which frees me to decide if I want to call them back right away or wait until I have more time to talk.   Having just that little bit of control makes life much easier!

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Leane

I love these tips...but was a little shocked at the fact that they think procrastination is in the same part of your brain as ADD.  I am 30 and have been battling with both my whole life.....

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Linda

I sure love the fact about sbout sleeping late! No one will have to remind me of this one again! Tongue out Consier it done! LOL!I agree about the phone one too. When we lived with my Mother in law she taught me that one.

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Sandi

I was surprised about the exercise thing, since I always feel better in the morning when I did exercise, but hate getting up so early to do it. I guess know I will try between 5 and 7pm. Thanks. I will have to also work on the not running when one of my little ones seems close to danger.

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Liz

I agree with the plane thing. I tend to wait until everyone gets of the plane instead. This way I am not stressed to get to my destination. Also the bathrooms are less crowded if you wait a few minutes to get off the plane.

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Rebecca

totally get the phone thing and trying to slow to get the phone. Thanks for the other tips.

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Julie

i agree with the boarding the plane-why sit there any longer than you have to!

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Linda

What a wonderful way to air our stresses in life and share them.  Exercise is great for body, mind and soul, start in youth and you will continue through your senior years since you have programed your body and mind to participate in this.  All your comments are refreshing, as I am a semi-retired senior and can relate to the plane, phone, children/grandchildren/great-grandchildren, and the joy of sleeping late.  Thanks

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Lora

I just wonder if this article is intentionally 10 days late for "National Be Late for Something Day".......

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Loretta

How do you get to that extra REM sleep time whemn you have to be at work at 6AM?  Going to bed early is not always an option.

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Loretta

How do you get that extra REM sleep when you have to be at work at 6AM?   Going to bed early is not always an option.

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Cecilia

I hate to be late.I'm the type of person who alway's on time.I cannot avoid it.On the way to do the door,my sister called,telling about her job.I told her I'll talked to you later I have a meeting,I dn't want to be late,I was 30 minutes late.I feel soo bad and apologizing at the same time.Now I know how it feels.My sister said to me being late once in awhile is a "Good Thing".She's always late.By Cecilia on 09/15,2009

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Audrey

I am a semi-retired senior and have known for many years that the last hours of sleep are the most refreshing.  I have three daughters and they all are in full agreement.  My day goes so much better when I can get that sleep.  I had to learn the phone answering idea also.  Really enjoy vocalpoint.  Keep up the good work and samples.  Sharing is the most fun. 

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Pamela

Im not one for people to be late!  Happen's offen plan on it for the rest of your life!

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Julianne

I have always been early for everthings.  Just like planning - i'm a planner.  Now that I have three boys - I sometimes pick the situations to late for so i'm not constantly on their tails to hurry up. (I have two early risers & one sleepy head)  Save me the stress.Wink

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Tanya

love that someone defends my sleeping!

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Donna

If I know where I am going, I will be right on time. But if I don't know where I'm going, garentied I will be late.

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Susan

Wait a minute, ladies.  Please do not take this article as a "green light for tardiness"!  It says NOTHING in there about being late for events that have a specific start time.  We all need to work at planning our time better, AND remembering that perpetual "lateness" shows disrespect and a lack of concern for other's time (invested in planning event, etc.)  ;-) 

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Rainyday

i agree planning and structure is great part of having a smooth day ,being late is not an option its a disease if repeated over and over.

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Cindy

I agrree about waiting to get on an airplane.  My husband and I have always done that, and it is so much nicer to just walk on and find your seat.

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Theresa

I agree with getting on the plane late... unless you're flying Southwest. Since it's first come, first serve on that airline, you need to be among the first to get on to get good and/or adjacent seats, especially if you're in a family or group that wants to sit together. You can also get the seats closer to the front so you don't have to lug your bags to and from the back, and not get stuck sitting next to the toilets.  So check in early and be there when they open the gate! Smile

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Monique

I have a solution for not being late for anything, my husband always likes to wait until the last minute for everything.  Now, when we have to go somewhere, i tell him "the start time is 1/2 hour later that way i am not rushing to get anywhere 

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