2/23/2010

Finicky Eaters? Clever Solutions

Finicky Eaters? Clever Solutions

Our friend’s daughter went through a “white period” when she was 5. All she would eat was pasta, rice, chicken, and other colorless foods. This went on for 2 years, nearly driving the poor woman crazy. But as kids will often do, she snapped out of it one day by eating sushi (sushi!). Just like with potty training, it can take a good amount of patience and creativity to get kids to break eating routines. To help, we’ve gathered ingenious ideas that just might persuade even the pickiest eaters to pick up new foods.

Build on what they love. Our friend’s daughter liked white rice, which is sushi’s main ingredient. In retrospect, it wasn’t that big a step.

Make it fun. Sushi is food entertainment. Contrast that with the congealed pea soup you’re serving. Try “planting” little broccoli trees in the mashed potatoes or using cookie cutters to shape the meat loaf into stars.

Mix up meals. Serve bacon and eggs for dinner or pizza for breakfast. Breaking a kid’s general eating habits might make him more adventurous with specific foods.

Ditch the silverware. Have a dinner where everyone eats with chopsticks, toothpicks, sporks, or fingers. And why stop there? Trade the dinner table for a living-room picnic.

Downsize dinner. Make your little guy feel grown up by creating a miniature meal. Serve little burgers, hot dogs, or sandwiches on small plates, along with mini carrots, drinks in shot glasses, and tiny napkins. Make believe you’re giants.

Serve a lavender lunch. Put a few drops of natural food coloring in milk and macaroni-and-cheese. It’ll carry the lesson that looks are deceiving.

Use star power. If your daughter is a Hannah Montana fan, point out that Miley is a vegetarian. Or if your son likes dinosaurs, tell him many of them ate lots of green things.

Hire a sous chef. Involving a child in the cooking process often inspires them to eat what they’ve made. For fun recipes, try Cooking Rocks! Rachel Ray 30-Minute Meals for Kids.

Create a story around the food. That’s not whole-wheat linguine. Oh, no, no, no. Those are rare Peruvian earthworms that, when eaten, make you invisible between the hours of 7 and 8 PM.

Talk through food. Keep some alphabet noodles in the fridge and put messages on their plate. “Try this!” or “It won’t kill you!” If you make them laugh, they will have already opened their mouth.

Cut a deal. Tell your finicky one that you’ll take a bite of your most loathed food (lima beans?) if they also sample theirs. Grimace together.

Be persistent, but don’t nag. Even if you exhaust this list of suggestions with no luck, keep at it. Studies show that you may have to introduce new foods 10 times before fussy eaters accept them. And try not to get frustrated in the process. Researchers at Penn State found that the pickiest eaters were the ones with moms who pressured them most.

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Jenny

10 times before fussy eaters accept food?! At least I know we're not alone...there are just some things I don't want to clean up off the floor 10 times!! (we have a 20 month old)

posted on 2/23/2010

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Anne

Sometimes, I just don't have the energy to do this - it kills me to offer and then waste the food...and my daughter is only 10 months!

posted on 2/23/2010

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Judith

I was STUNNED when my 13 year old ate baked salmon at a friend's house for dinner.  I think this is the age when they finally turn the corner in terms of trying new things....

posted on 2/23/2010

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Melissa

Don't pressure them. Another good way is to have a friend/relative over the same age  (or just someone they lookup to)who loves the things they won't try. Talk to their mom's and set up a lunch date.

posted on 2/23/2010

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Rebecca

These are great ideas! I will definitely have to give them a go with my 4-yr old. I haven't really been sure what to do.

posted on 2/23/2010

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Debbie

When my boys were young and even teenagers and they wouldn't eat vegetables, especially my oldest.  I bought baby foods (a variety of vegetables) and when I made spaghetti or stews or something they wouldn't notice a change I would a a few jars of baby food when they were not looking.  I did my shopping when they weren't with me so they had no idea I had any baby food hidden in the kitchen.  Until one night we were out to dinner with my son's then girlfriend now wife and she asked how i got them to eat vegetables.  I looked at her and finally said baby food.  They all gave me a strange look and when we got home they searched the cupboards and found the jars.  We all laughed but I did it after that.  And they ate what they liked but they had there vegetables.

posted on 2/23/2010

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Donna

I have found that making their favorite shapes out of the food example Nemo sandwiches. I cut the sandwhich in the shape of a fish or strawberry shortcake sandwich which is peanut butter with red or pink sprinkles. Robot waffles one waffle pour syrup where eyes and nose and mouth go(helps with holding things on the waffle. Use blueberries or fruit loops for eyes and nose then use fruity pebbles as a mouth or what ever you have they will love it!

posted on 2/24/2010

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Cynthia

I need all the help I can get with my 3 year old Grandson.  Thank you!

posted on 2/24/2010

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Lakisha

i will try some of these suggestions with my 3 year old.  She has a very small selection of things she will eat and she hates trying new thing.  I hope one of these suggestions work.

posted on 2/24/2010

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Leah

I love the idea of make believing you're giants. So creative and would make dinner really fun! My kids might even forget it's milk they're drinking if it's out of a tiny glass.

posted on 2/24/2010

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C

  • Jenny said:
    10 times before fussy eaters accept food?! At least I know were not alone...there are just some things I dont want to clean up off the floor 10 times!! (we have a 20 month old)

Try using a tablecloth under the high chair .  You know the kind; plastic on the top, cloth, flannel, etc. on the bottom.  Buy a big one so that most of the food that is catapulted will still end up on the tablecloth, not on the carpet.  Much easier to clean up than the floor.

posted on 2/24/2010

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Teresa

I used to be a one of these type eaters, and than my husband started working with me & I discovered a new world of food. He started masking food with all types of exotic things that I used to hate, and telling me it was something else. I like this article a lot, and think everyone can learn something from it.

posted on 2/24/2010

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Karen

  • Debbie said:
    When my boys were young and even teenagers and they wouldnt eat vegetables, especially my oldest.  I bought baby foods (a variety of vegetables) and when I made spaghetti or stews or something they wouldnt notice a change I would a a few jars of baby food when they were not looking.  I did my shopping when they werent with me so they had no idea I had any baby food hidden in the kitchen.  Until one night we were out to dinner with my sons then girlfriend now wife and she asked how i got them to eat vegetables.  I looked at her and finally said baby food.  They all gave me a strange look and when we got home they searched the cupboards and found the jars.  We all laughed but I did it after that.  And they ate what they liked but they had there vegetables.

this is a great Idea. I can thikg of all kinds of ways to use that trick thanks Karen

posted on 2/24/2010

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Stacey

My youngest daughter is eight and she's very small for her age, her doctor wants to start her on growth hormones.  Cry  She's a very picky eater, among her other problems she had oral aversions when she was younger.  It was so bad she gagged if you showed her a Cherrio.  Thanks to the hard work of the fabulous therapists at The Children's Institute she's eating better now but she still doesn't eat much.  Her doctor told us to give her instant breakfast shakes.  She likes the strawberry and chocolate but won't drink vanilla.  So to use the vanilla up I started giving her half vanilla and half chocolate or strawberry.  If we're out of strawberry and that's what she wants I'll give her milk with strawberry sauce and vanilla "shakeup" as my daughter calls them.  I accidentally put in a little more than I usually do a few nights ago when I was making one for her.   The next day when I was getting her one she said "Make it like yesterday, that was good!"l  Surprised  lol I said "You liked it like that?"  "Mmm, it was yummy!"  lol Now she asks for them like that all the time.  I also pour a little bit into her breakfast cereal and mix it up good so it disolves into the milk.  She hasn't noticed that I do that...yet. Sealed  Deception is an art that should be mastered by all parents. Innocent  lol  This is a good tip for anyone who wants to sneak a little more nutririon into their kids' diets. You can also add it to milkshakes. The brand we buy (it comes in a yellow box Wink )  has recipies on the packets to make shakes with fruit.  I've had them myslef for snacks, they're pretty good!

posted on 2/24/2010

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Sarah

My 1 year old used to eat anything I put on his plate. Now all he wants is cheese and pasta.Undecided I will definately be trying the babyfood idea in his spaghetti.

posted on 2/25/2010

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Tam

someone told me a kid is more likely to eat if they help!

posted on 2/25/2010

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Amber

I have a six year old who doesn't like meat. The only time she will eat meat is if I make it a "grown up meal" like mini steaks or pork chops. I also have a very picky 4 year old. She likes to pretend everything comes from the "Krusty Krab" because she loves Spongebob.

posted on 2/25/2010

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Dawn

With my kids, almost everything 'new' they turned their noses up, but.. if it was on a cracker, or had a pretzel dipped in it.. they would try anything!  A couple of weeks ago, I found out that this works for my 2 year old grandson too :)I also added puree'd veggies, like carrots in marinara sauce or yellow squash in alfredo sauce.   For protein, whey powder can mix into anything.  I even used powdered vitamins for my pickiest child.

posted on 2/25/2010

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Debbie

  • Debbie said:
    When my boys were young and even teenagers and they wouldnt eat vegetables, especially my oldest.  I bought baby foods (a variety of vegetables) and when I made spaghetti or stews or something they wouldnt notice a change I would a a few jars of baby food when they were not looking.  I did my shopping when they werent with me so they had no idea I had any baby food hidden in the kitchen.  Until one night we were out to dinner with my sons then girlfriend now wife and she asked how i got them to eat vegetables.  I looked at her and finally said baby food.  They all gave me a strange look and when we got home they searched the cupboards and found the jars.  We all laughed but I did it after that.  And they ate what they liked but they had there vegetables.

I think that is the best idea yet!  I would hide babyfood in other things!  Now I will put it in stews and soups and red sauce.  Only there portion of course!  Great thinking!  I have an 8 yr old and is very picky!  Thanks! 

posted on 2/26/2010

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Ann

A friend's daughter recently told me how "smart" her mother was when the kids were little and everyone of the 4 kids was a picky eater. Her mother told them that green beans were "green french fries" and let them dip them in ketchup...and now as teens, they all love green beans!

posted on 2/27/2010

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Mrs.

  • Debbie said:
    • Debbie said:
      When my boys were young and even teenagers and they wouldnt eat vegetables, especially my oldest.  I bought baby foods (a variety of vegetables) and when I made spaghetti or stews or something they wouldnt notice a change I would a a few jars of baby food when they were not looking.  I did my shopping when they werent with me so they had no idea I had any baby food hidden in the kitchen.  Until one night we were out to dinner with my sons then girlfriend now wife and she asked how i got them to eat vegetables.  I looked at her and finally said baby food.  They all gave me a strange look and when we got home they searched the cupboards and found the jars.  We all laughed but I did it after that.  And they ate what they liked but they had there vegetables.

    I think that is the best idea yet!  I would hide babyfood in other things!  Now I will put it in stews and soups and red sauce.  Only there portion of course!  Great thinking!  I have an 8 yr old and is very picky!  Thanks! 
That was a cute story. A parent always has to think of the child's well being and future. It sounds like you are on the same page as Jessica Seinfeld. In Jessica's book she emphasizes making purees of vegetables, and adding them to the children's food. I just got the book, it is very interesting. The title is ,"Deceptively Delicious". Thanks for sharing your story,Debbie! 

posted on 3/1/2010

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Mrs.

We would play the "choo-Choo" game. The spoon had green peas, and that would be the train. Then,you make the train sounds. They would have to open their mouth to feed them, we would say the train needs to go in the tunnel. My mom used to play this with us. Guess what it is generation approved, it worked for us. Earing spinach? You could steam it, put it in a salad. We used to tell the children,"Remember, Popeye. He got so strong eating spinach!" Sounds silly but it works. When the child is a little older, ranch dip and ketchup is the order of the day for dipping. Cool

posted on 3/1/2010

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Chip

Great article!

posted on 3/1/2010

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Michelle

taste buds are always changing so try to get them to sample everything all the time!

posted on 3/1/2010

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Janice

  • Stacey said:
    My youngest daughter is eight and shes very small for her age, her doctor wants to start her on growth hormones.  Cry  Shes a very picky eater, among her other problems she had oral aversions when she was younger.  It was so bad she gagged if you showed her a Cherrio.  Thanks to the hard work of the fabulous therapists at The Childrens Institute shes eating better now but she still doesnt eat much.  Her doctor told us to give her instant breakfast shakes.  She likes the strawberry and chocolate but wont drink vanilla.  So to use the vanilla up I started giving her half vanilla and half chocolate or strawberry.  If were out of strawberry and thats what she wants Ill give her milk with strawberry sauce and vanilla shakeup as my daughter calls them.  I accidentally put in a little more than I usually do a few nights ago when I was making one for her.   The next day when I was getting her one she said Make it like yesterday, that was good!l  Surprised  lol I said You liked it like that?  Mmm, it was yummy!  lol Now she asks for them like that all the time.  I also pour a little bit into her breakfast cereal and mix it up good so it disolves into the milk.  She hasnt noticed that I do that...yet. Sealed  Deception is an art that should be mastered by all parents. Innocent  lol  This is a good tip for anyone who wants to sneak a little more nutririon into their kids diets. You can also add it to milkshakes. The brand we buy (it comes in a yellow box Wink )  has recipies on the packets to make shakes with fruit.  Ive had them myslef for snacks, theyre pretty good!

I would love to talk to you more about your daughter. My son is turning 6 next week and only eats about 5 foods minus all the junk food. He gags with most food and smells. I have had him to a specialist and he had swelling in his esopagitis like an allergtic reaction. he tested positive for milk and egg allergy (a 2 on the scale) we stopped all milk and egg, which was hard because he loves milk and yorgurt. long story short, did well slowly started back on these food and now i just watch to make sure he doesn't get a ton of milk and i substitute eggs when baking. but he still won't try new things. It is so frustioning for me. I am going to try the baby food thing but he doesn't eat pasta or sauces. I make cookies with veggie all the time. I am thinking it may be time to go back to the specialist.

posted on 3/8/2010

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